Some people make appointments to see their therapist in person, others choose online counseling. As a counselor and therapist who offers both, my experience is that neither is better or worse than the other, they are just different. Each approach to therapy has its own advantages and benefits.
When There is No 'Body Language', the Focus is on the Therapy
Some people have an idea that because online counselors will not see body language, they are at a disadvantage in their job and may not be as effective as face-to-face counselors. But how significant is 'body language' when considered against what is being said and heard? Online therapeutic conversations actually have the potential to be more focused than a discussion between therapist and client in the same room. The distractions of how someone is sitting, what they are wearing and what else is going on in the room are simply not present during online appointments.
'Body language' can of course give a counselor a better sense of a person, but it can also be influenced by the situation in itself. A person meeting with a therapist in an unfamiliar office might appear physically uncomfortable, more so perhaps than if the consultation was taking place online.
There are obviously some differences between being in the same room as a therapist and meeting with them online. But such limitations need to be balanced against the extra attention that words and language receive when they are conveyed from a position of comfort and in a familiar environment like home.
Online Counseling: Different Choices for Different People
Online counseling is not just one approach. It encompasses a number of options which each has its own advantages.
Webcam: Face to Face Counseling over the Internet
The most recognized approach to talk therapy over the Internet is probably webcam counseling. Webcam counseling means that you and the therapist see each other face to face, just like if you were together in the same room. So rather than talk about Online Counselling and 'face-to-face' counseling, I like to use the terms 'online counseling' and 'in-person counseling', because webcam counseling IS face to face.
There is no doubt many people enjoy the comfort and convenience of meeting a therapist over webcam. You don't need to think about transport, traffic or what you are wearing. You save time because you don't even need to leave home. All you need is a functioning computer with webcam, access to the internet and a quiet and private place. You can see and talk with your therapist in confidence and relaxed in your own space. If you don't want to be seen, you can choose to talk without the video, which is just like telephone counseling.
Instant Messenger Counseling
Different people like the idea of therapy over the Internet for different reasons. The convenience of not having to leave home can be attractive but the privacy and confidentiality of online conversations are also a drawcard for many.
Instant message software such as Skype and Windows Messenger makes it possible to participate in therapy without being seen or heard. Typing out your problems and having your therapist respond with questions or reflections on what you have written can be a refreshing alternative to having to give voice to difficult experiences. This might be quite important for someone who experiences shyness or struggles to speak to a stranger. An additional feature of the software is that it automatically keeps a transcript of the conversation on your computer that you can choose to delete at any time. The advantage here is you can read over the transcript to refresh your memory of what was said at any time after the session has finished and refer to the dialogue at your next appointment if you have any questions. Research has shown that documentation of what transpired can make therapy sessions much more effective.
Email Counseling
Email counseling has been around for some time now. It offers the convenience of not having to leave home, the privacy of not being seen or heard and the added advantage that you can choose to write in your own time.
Some people feel under time pressure when they are in a room with a therapist. This pressure disappears with email counseling. Exchanging emails with your therapist means you can think through what you want to say, take your time to write it and then, when you receive a reply from the practitioner, you can read it over in your own time. Email counseling takes the rush out of therapy. And everything the therapist says is documented, which is another safeguard for you.
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